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Warmest Greetings,

Spring is on its way! With Spring so close to us now, it is Mother Nature's time to bloom.  Much in nature has prepared for the coming of the Spring from animals expecting to plants slowly returning from hibernation.  Spring reminds me that we are born from this Earth and its materials.  Just like all other mammals, the "materials" given to us includes the ability to nurse. It is the natural step after creating a life...to sustain it.

As you welcome Spring into your hearts, take a breath in and marvel at the fact that you are born with the ability and power to create, sustain and nourish a life.  It is an empowerment that is as strong as the sun, water, air, and love - all of which are necessary for us to continue to live.

Enjoy the defrosting of the Earth!!

Many BLLLessings,

Erin Abrams
LLL Leader of Sturbridge, MA
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LLL of Sturbridge Nighttime Meeting:
Date:  March 16th
(3rd Wed. of each month)
Time: 7-8:00PM
Topic: 
Breastfeeding Myths and Facts (Your questions and concerns are top priority.)
Location:  Sturbridge Coffee House on Rt. 20 in Sturbridge.
In the tradition of LLL, please join in the discussion and support our community.  All you have to bring is your experiences that you have encountered with breastfeeding or help support another mother that could use a bit of breastfeeding wisdom. ;)
Breastfeeding babies, toddlers, and breastfeeding children who would be unhappy away from their mothers are welcome
. Click here for directions.

LLL of Worcester Daytime Meeting:
LLL of Worcester has daytime meetings on the 2nd Tuesday of every month at 551 Pleasant St in Worcester. In addition they are offering a Sat. morning meeting soon. Contact LLL Worcester Leader: Jenn Dziejma dziejen@yahoo.com  or visit http://www.llleus.org/web/WorcesterMA.html for more information.


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This month's topic is Breastfeeding Myths and Facts . Article taken from La Leche League online magazine NEW BEGINNINGS (free with your $40 membership dues).

 

Common Breastfeeding Myths

By Lisa Marasco
Assistant Area Professional Liaison
LLL of Southern California/Nevada USA
From: LEAVEN, Vol. 34 No. 2, April-May 1998, pp. 21-24

Myth 1: Frequent nursing leads to poor milk production, a weak let-down response and ultimately unsuccessful nursing.

Fact: Milk supply is optimized when a healthy baby is allowed to nurse as often as he indicates the need. The milk-ejection reflex operates most strongly in the presence of a good supply of milk, which normally occurs when feeding on baby's cue.

Myth 2: A mother only needs to nurse four to six times a day to maintain good milk supply.

Fact: Research shows that when a mother breastfeeds early and often, an average of 9.9 times a day in the first two weeks, her milk production is greater, her infant gains more weight and she continues breastfeeding for a longer period. Milk production has been shown to be related to feeding frequency, and milk supply declines when feedings are infrequent or restricted.

Myth 3: Babies get all the milk they need in the first five to ten minutes of nursing.

Fact: While many older babies can take in the majority of their milk in the first five to ten minutes, this cannot be generalized to all babies. Newborns, who are learning to nurse and are not always efficient at sucking, often need much longer to feed. The ability to take in milk is also subject to the mother's let-down response. While many mothers may let down immediately, some may not. Some may eject their milk in small batches several times during a nursing session. Rather than guess, it is best to allow baby to suck until he shows signs of satiety such as self-detachment and relaxed hands and arms.

Myth 4: A breastfeeding mother should space her feedings so that her breasts will have time to refill.

Fact: Every baby/mother dyad is unique. A lactating mother's body is always making milk. Her breasts function in part as "storage tank," some holding more than others. The emptier the breast, the faster the body makes milk to replace it; the fuller the breast, the more production of milk slows down. If a mother consistently waits until her breasts "fill up" before she nurses, her body may get the message that it is making too much and may reduce total production.

Myth 5: Babies need only six to eight feedings a day by eight weeks of age, five to six feedings a day by three months, no more than four or five feedings a day by six months of age.

Fact: A breastfed baby's frequency of feeding will vary according to the mother's milk supply and storage capacity, as well as baby's developmental needs. Growth spurts and illnesses can temporarily change a baby's feeding patterns. Studies show that breastfeeding babies fed on cue will settle into a pattern that suits their own unique situation. In addition, the caloric intake of a breastfed baby increases toward the end of the feeding, so putting arbitrary limits on the frequency or duration of feedings may lead to inadequate caloric intake.

Myth 6: It is the amount of milk that a baby takes in (quantitative), not whether it is human milk or formula (qualitative), that determines how long a baby can go between feedings.

Fact:Breastfed babies have faster gastric emptying times than fomula-fed babies--approximately 1.5 hours versus up to 4 hours--due to the smaller size of the protein molecules in human milk. While intake quantity is one factor in determining feeding frequency, the type of milk is equally important. Anthropologic studies of mammalian milk confirm that human babies were intended to feed frequently and have done so throughout most of history.

Myth 7: Never wake a sleeping baby.

Fact: While most babies will indicate when they need to eat, babies in the newborn period may not wake often enough on their own and should be awakened if necessary to eat at least eight times a day. Infrequent waking to feed can be caused by labor drugs, maternal medications, jaundice, trauma, pacifiers and/or shutdown behavior after delayed response to feeding cues.

In addition, mothers who wish to take advantage of the natural infertility of lactational amenorrhea find that the return of menses is delayed longer when baby continues to suckle at night.

Myth 8: The metabolism of a baby is disorganized at birth and it requires the implementation of a routine or schedule to help stabilize this disorganization.

Fact: Babies are uniquely wired from birth to feed, sleep and have periods of wakefulness. This is not disorganized behavior but reflects the unique needs of newborn infants. Over time, babies naturally adapt to the rhythm of life in their new environment and do not require prompting or training.

Myth 9: Breastfeeding mothers must always use both breasts at each feeding.

Fact: It is more important to let baby finish the first breast first, even if that means that he doesn't take the second breast at the same feeding. Hindmilk is accessed gradually as the breast is drained. Some babies, if switched prematurely to the second breast, may fill up on the lower-calorie foremilk from both breasts rather than obtaining the normal balance of foremilk and hindmilk, resulting in infant dissatisfaction and poor weight gain. In the early weeks, many mothers offer both breasts at each feeding to help establish the milk supply.

Myth 10: If a baby isn't gaining well, it may be due to the low quality of the mother's milk.

Fact: Studies have shown that even malnourished women are able to produce milk of sufficient quality and quantity to support a growing infant. Most cases low weight gain are related to insufficient milk intake or an underlying health problem in the baby.

Myth 11: Poor milk supply is usually caused by stress, fatigue and/or inadequate fluids and food intake.

Fact: The most common causes of milk supply problems are infrequent feedings and/or poor latch-on and positioning; both are usually due to inadequate information provided to the breastfeeding mother. Suckling problems on the infant's part can also impact milk supply negatively. Stress, fatigue or malnutrition are rarely causes of milk supply failure because the body has highly developed survival mechanisms to protect the nursling during times of scarce food supply.

Myth 12: A mother must drink milk to make milk.

Fact: A healthy diet of vegetables, fruits, grains and proteins is all that a mother needs to provide the proper nutrients to produce milk. Calcium can he obtained from a variety of nondairy foods such as dark green vegetables, seeds, nuts and bony fish. No other mammal drinks milk to make milk.

Myth 13: Non-nutritive sucking has no scientific basis.

Fact: Experienced breastfeeding mothers learn that the sucking patterns and needs of babies vary. While some infants' sucking needs are met primarily during feedings, other babies may need additional sucking at the breast soon after a feeding even though they are not really hungry. Babies may also nurse when they are lonely, frightened or in pain.

Myth 14: The mother should not be a pacifier for the baby.

Fact: Comforting and meeting sucking needs at the breast is nature's original design. Pacifiers (dummies, soothers) are literally a substitute for the mother when she can't be available. Other reasons to pacify a baby primarily at the breast include superior oral-facial development, prolonged lactational amenorrhea, avoidance of nipple confusion and stimulation of an adequate milk supply to ensure higher rates of breastfeeding success.

Myth 15: There is no such thing as nipple confusion.

Fact: Breast and bottle feeding require different oral-motor skills, and rubber nipples provide a type of "super stimulus" that babies may imprint upon instead of the softer breast. As a result, some babies develop suck confusion and apply inappropriate suckling techniques to the breast when they switch between breast and bottle.

Myth 16: Frequent nursing can lead to postpartum depression.

Fact: Postpartum depression is believed to be caused by fluctuating hormones after birth and may be exacerbated by fatigue and lack of social support, though it mostly occurs in women who have a history of problems prior to pregnancy.

Myth 17: Feeding on baby's cue does not enhance maternal bonding behavior.

Fact: The responsive parenting of cue feeding brings mother and baby into synchronization, leading to enhanced bonding.

Myth 18: Mothers who hold their babies too much will spoil them.

Fact: Babies who are held often cry fewer hours a day and exhibit more security as they mature.

Myth 19: It is important that other family members get to feed baby so that they can bond, too.

Fact: Feeding is not the only method by which other family members can bond with the baby; holding, cuddling, bathing and playing with the infant are all important to his growth, development and attachment to others.

Myth 20: Child-directed feeding (nursing on demand) has a negative impact on the husband/wife relationship.

Fact: Mature parents realize that a newborn's needs are very intense but also diminish over time. In fact, the teamwork of nurturing a newborn can actually bring a couple closer as they develop parenting skills together.

Myth 21: Some babies are allergic to their mother's milk.

Fact: Human milk is the most natural and physiologic substance that baby can ingest. If a baby shows sensitivities related to feeding, it is usually a foreign protein that has piggybacked into mother's milk, and not the milk itself. This is easily handled by removing the offending food from mother's diet for a time.

Myth 22: Frequent nursing causes a child to be obese later in life.

Fact: Studies show that breastfed babies who control their own feeding patterns and intake tend to take just the right amount of milk for them. Formula feeding and early introduction of solids, not breastfeeding on demand, have been implicated in risk of obesity later in life.

Myth 23: The lying-down nursing position causes ear infections.

Fact: Because human milk is alive and teeming with antibodies and immunoglobulins, the baby is less likely to develop ear infections overall, no matter what position is used.

Myth 24: Nursing a baby after 12 months is of little value because the quality of breast milk begins to decline after six months.

Fact: The composition of human milk changes to meet the changing needs of baby as he matures. Even when baby is able to take solids, human milk is the primary source of nutrition during the first year. It becomes a supplement to solids during the second year. In addition, it takes between two and six years for a child's immune system to fully mature. Human milk continues to complement and boost the immune system for as long as it is offered.

All references are at: http://www.llli.org/NB/LVAprMay98p21NB.html

 

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Items and events in this category are not associated with LLL and are listed here as a service to the community.  If you know of a community event, please email Erin at info@lllsturbridge.org by the first of the month.


Home Depot Craft day in Auburn, MA

1st Saturday of the month Home Depot brings out wonderful projects for kids to create and celebrate the season.  Drop in during the AM hours and earn a pin for your children's apron.


CPC Preschool Program
Dates: various locations and days from Brookfield to Brimfield
Location: Hitchcock Free Academy, Wed. 9-9:45AM
Free program offered by the CPC for caregivers and preschool aged children to play, explore and learn together. www.hitchcockacademy.org


Joshua Hyde Library/Sturbridge

Children's Events:
http://www.town.sturbridge.ma.us/Public_Documents/SturbridgeMA_LibCal/?FormID=158   


Jacob Edwards Library/Southbridge
508-764-5427
Charlton Children's Events: 
http://www.charltonlibrary.org/charlton/children.asp  


Charlton Public Library
508-248-0452
Children's Events:

http://www.charltonlibrary.org/charlton/children.asp

 


Merrick Public Library
2 Lincoln Street
Brookfield
508-867-6339
Babytime: Wednesdays 11:00am – 12:00pm
Pre-School story time and singing with Ms. Coro: Fridays 11:30am – 12:00pm
Drop-in Arts & Crafts: Fridays 2:30pm – 4:30pm, all ages welcome to attend.
Yoga for kids: Thursdays 2:00pm.


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Then join LLL online!  Many of us have busy lives and can't connect during our meeting times.  Facebook allows you to post a question to fellow breastfeeding mothers and have an instant community when you need support.  We also use it to announce what we are doing that day and if any other like-minded moms want to join in.  Search for
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Would you like to see our LLL group reach out to more mothers and bring more awareness to breastfeeding?  If you have ever thought of volunteering or giving back a small amount of your time while making an amazing shift in our area's thinking, I can not express how rewarding being a Leader is.  For me, it has given me the opportunity to connected with so many amazing mothers and families that they have made me a better mother and wife.  I am truly blessed to be in this community and help support it. If you would like to help support our community and would like to help lead our group, please contact me.

What is our purpose as LLL Leaders?  Leaders know the importance of one mother helping another to recognize and understand the needs of her child and to find the best means of fulfilling those needs. Leaders provide information and support so that each mother can make the decisions which are best for her family.

What does a Leader do? Most Leaders fulfill the basic responsibilities of leadership, which are:
• Helping mothers one-to-one by telephone, email, or in person.
• Planning and leading monthly Series Meetings.
• Supervising the management of the LLL Group.
• Keeping up-to-date on breastfeeding information.
• Upholding the LLL philosophy


LLL Philosophy
 

  • Mothering through breastfeeding is the most natural and effective way of understanding and satisfying the needs of the baby.

  • Mother and baby need to be together early and often to establish a satisfying relationship and an adequate milk supply.

  • In the early years, the baby has an intense need to be with his mother which is as basic as his need for food.

  • Breast milk is the superior infant food.

  • For the healthy, full-term baby, breast milk is the only food necessary until baby shows signs of needing solids, about the middle of the first year after birth.

  • Ideally, the breastfeeding relationship will continue until the baby outgrows the need.

  • Alert and active participation by the mother in childbirth is a help in getting breastfeeding off to a good start.

  • Breastfeeding is enhanced and the nursing couple sustained by the loving support, help, and companionship of the baby’s father. A father’s unique relationship with his baby is an important element in the child’s development from early infancy.

  • Good nutrition means eating a well-balanced and varied diet of foods in as close to their natural state as possible.

  • From infancy on, children need loving guidance which reflects acceptance of their capabilities and sensitivity to their feelings.

 

LLL of Worcester holds monthly meetings to help leaders become accredited.  Please email me if you are interested in attending and seeing if leadership is right for you.

 



 

 
You don't have to join LLL to come to our meetings but by joining LLL of Sturbridge you help support YOUR breastfeeding community. 

The $40 LLL Regular Membership  includes a discount in the LLLI Online Store, a subscription to New Beginnings e-Magazine and much more.  To find out more benefits and other levels of membership, visit http://www.llli.org/membership.html.

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Free with a 1 year membership - LLL Online Bi-Monthly magazine is filled with valuable information on breastfeeding and mother-to-mother sharing.

 

Please mail it directly to our group as your money will be directly contributing to your local community.  You can send check made out to LLL of Sturbridge, MA and mail it to PO Box 523, Sturbridge, MA 01566.
 

 


La Leche League International offers 24 hour toll free helpline providing information, education and support for women who want to breastfeed and healthcare providers. Visit
www.breasfeedinghelpline.com, http://www.llleus.org  or www.llli.org for more information or call 1-877-LA-LECHE (1-877-452-5324).

 

 

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